Lost Your Satisfaction in Bed?

Provided By: Jahwara Arabia

Part 1:
Is your sex life with your husband becoming a mission that lost its enjoyment?
You forgot what satisfaction felt like and all the love fantasies you had hidden in your mind are blown away?
Good news: It can be fixed! You will get back that ultimate mind blowing and body shaking experience that you have always dreamt of.

The secret is: Communicate
It is hard for a woman to talk about her secret fantasies and the way she likes her man to make love to her, but if you choose the right time then it won’t be a big deal so follow these steps:

Preparation:
I’m sure women can master preparation before making love such as the atmosphere, lights, perfume, lingerie…etc. So let’s skip what you know already to the part where you need to communicate, which is another kind of preparation of its own.

After making love don’t give your man the chance to go away immediately and keep him in bed for few minutes, some men know that women love to cuddle in these moments. Some men don’t mind it, while others avoid it. In some cases men don’t really know its importance to you, and that’s where you need to communicate.
In all cases don’t let him leave the bed, just put your head on his chest, massage his arms and hands gently, wrap yourself around him and tell him how you love and enjoy the warmth of his body.

Open up and express:
Praise your man on how good he was “men love it!”, he will give you a smile, and that’s your chance to talk.
Ask him what he enjoyed in this night, if he liked your perfume, and what position he preferred the most. In addition, ask him if there is a move that you did that he did not like in order to avoid it the next time. Let him tell you his fantasies, positions he would like to explore, and scenarios he dreamt of doing with you.

After he shares his comments and fantasies, now is your turn! Tell him what you enjoyed, but don’t give him a long list of the bad moves! Give it to him one at a time, men have a big ego when it comes to love making.
If after every time of your love making you share just one thing that you liked and disliked, then your love life will be better by time. He will unconsciously do what you liked more and avoid what you disliked.
After reaching this point, why not cross the line you couldn’t before and tell him about your dreams, fantasies and what you really want him to do?

Not having enough courage yet? Then keep on practicing and read part 2 for more tips!
Tip of the week: “All the above conversations are done with a smile and a shy eye contact every now and then, remember it’s the body language now that is most heard”